fatumnette has agreed to move in with my parents till our own
place is ready .....
she says next time when my parents get older we'll have to take
care of them anyways .......
I really really kio tio ...... 
All I can say is it is not easy living with in-laws
I don't think your mum is like my friend's MIL who is like one
of those MIL's out of "Ai" who makes a mountain out trouble out of
nothing and basically just goes out creating trouble and full of
nonsense.
Right now, she just can't wait till her place is ready so that
she can move out.
I told her that she is already a better person than I am because
I really don't think I can tolerate such illogical nonsense. I'm
really VERY bad at that, especially if you're creating problems out
of nothing.